Both my husband and I together with my boy and girl had already gone to Sam Poh Tong to offer prayers to my late Parents-in-Law last Saturday. But yesterday was the actual day for Qingming. Early in the morning, before my husband went to work, he bought stuff to be offered to my late PIL at the altar of my home.
So when I got up from bed, I quickly got ready the stuff and prayed to my late PIL.
Lit the candles and josssticks.
We usually offered the following foodstuff..
fruits and steamed cakes
paus, angku, sesame balls and dumpling
siew york and some spinach
Before I collected those stuff, I threw two coins and I got two tails. That was a 'No' when I asked if they had finished eating. A while later, I tried again and it was two heads - a 'Smile' for an answer. Again another 'Smile' Ok, so I just let them for a while. Finally, I got a head and a tail! YES! I quickly took away all those foodstuff and started cutting the chicken and siew york.